iommufd: Destroy vdevice on idevice destroy

Destroy iommufd_vdevice (vdev) on iommufd_idevice (idev) destruction so
that vdev can't outlive idev.

idev represents the physical device bound to iommufd, while the vdev
represents the virtual instance of the physical device in the VM. The
lifecycle of the vdev should not be longer than idev. This doesn't
cause real problem on existing use cases cause vdev doesn't impact the
physical device, only provides virtualization information. But to
extend vdev for Confidential Computing (CC), there are needs to do
secure configuration for the vdev, e.g. TSM Bind/Unbind. These
configurations should be rolled back on idev destroy, or the external
driver (VFIO) functionality may be impact.

The idev is created by external driver so its destruction can't fail.
The idev implements pre_destroy() op to actively remove its associated
vdev before destroying itself. There are 3 cases on idev pre_destroy():

  1. vdev is already destroyed by userspace. No extra handling needed.
  2. vdev is still alive. Use iommufd_object_tombstone_user() to
     destroy vdev and tombstone the vdev ID.
  3. vdev is being destroyed by userspace. The vdev ID is already
     freed, but vdev destroy handler is not completed. This requires
     multi-threads syncing - vdev holds idev's short term users
     reference until vdev destruction completes, idev leverages
     existing wait_shortterm mechanism for syncing.

idev should also block any new reference to it after pre_destroy(),
or the following wait shortterm would timeout. Introduce a 'destroying'
flag, set it to true on idev pre_destroy(). Any attempt to reference
idev should honor this flag under the protection of
idev->igroup->lock.

Link: https://patch.msgid.link/r/20250716070349.1807226-5-yilun.xu@linux.intel.com
Originally-by: Nicolin Chen <nicolinc@nvidia.com>
Suggested-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Kevin Tian <kevin.tian@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Nicolin Chen <nicolinc@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Co-developed-by: "Aneesh Kumar K.V (Arm)" <aneesh.kumar@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: "Aneesh Kumar K.V (Arm)" <aneesh.kumar@kernel.org>
Tested-by: Nicolin Chen <nicolinc@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Xu Yilun <yilun.xu@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>

include/uapi/linux/iommufd.h

@@ -1070,6 +1070,11 @@ struct iommu_viommu_alloc {
  *
  * Allocate a virtual device instance (for a physical device) against a vIOMMU.
  * This instance holds the device's information (related to its vIOMMU) in a VM.
+ * User should use IOMMU_DESTROY to destroy the virtual device before
+ * destroying the physical device (by closing vfio_cdev fd). Otherwise the
+ * virtual device would be forcibly destroyed on physical device destruction,
+ * its vdevice_id would be permanently leaked (unremovable & unreusable) until
+ * iommu fd closed.
  */
 struct iommu_vdevice_alloc {
 	__u32 size;